Safety & trust
Six layers of defence before any account appears, privacy by default rather than a setting you hunt for, and a decision that stays yours at every step.
Multi-stage verification · Human review · 18+ only
Not promises — every layer is a procedure built into the product and written into the policy.
A verified phone, then a live selfie, then ID or passport if you choose. Each level raises the trust shown on your profile.
No account and no photo appears before passing a review queue. The wait is deliberate, not a slow system.
Hiding a marriage is a violation that leads to a ban — a stated policy, not a case-by-case judgement.
Reports are filed by category, and every one is logged, assigned and closed with a recorded decision.
Exchanging numbers and social links is limited early on, so the conversation stays somewhere it can be reviewed if reported.
A warning, then suspension, then a ban, then deletion — and every administrative action leaves a record.
The most private behaviour is the one you get without asking — no setting buried seven pages deep.
Private by default, or visible to accepted matches, or by individual permission — photo by photo, the decision is yours.
Go through the whole journey without publishing a photo, or with a blurred one revealed only by your consent.
Your full name and exact workplace are hidden by default, not on request.
Changing a visibility setting applies immediately and revokes earlier access — with no transition period.
Access, correction, export and deletion — rights written into the policy and built into the account.
See what we hold about you and correct it yourself, without emailing anyone.
A copy of all your data, ready to download whenever you want.
Your account is hidden immediately, and its data deleted after a grace period.
We collect only what matching and trust need — what is not required is not asked for.
Direct answers, with links to the policies where they help.
Nobody, by default. Every photo has a visibility level: private, visible to accepted matches, or by individual permission. A private photo is never revealed without mutual acceptance or your explicit permission, and any reversal takes effect at once.
In stages: a verified phone number, then a live selfie, then ID or passport for anyone who wants the verified badge. Every new account passes a human review before it becomes visible.
The report enters the review queue filed by category, is assigned to a human reviewer, and is closed with a decision recorded in the audit log. Action is graded: a warning, suspension, a ban, deletion.
Yes, and without emailing anyone. The account is hidden immediately, its data deleted after a grace period, and only the minimum the law requires of us remains. You can export everything first.
Disclosing marital status is mandatory, and hiding it is a violation that leads to a ban. A stated policy, not a case-by-case judgement.
Build your profile knowing that privacy is the default, and that every step needs your consent.
18+ only · Private by default · Full deletion at any time